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Men Who Cheat And Lies

Most woman already know when their spouse is cheating and lies just make it harder to work things out, truth is the first step to making your marriage work, it will hurt but deceit and lies will sooner or later end the marriage, she needs to be told, she deserves to be told, if you love her trust her to talk it out , if not you will lose her. you need to have the guts to admit you was wrong. If he continues to lie, maybe the affair is not over or he is planning on having another. If he loves you he need to confess, if he does not really love you he will keep the lie going. Why put her through this, it is wrong, Most times all she wants to hear you say is that you love her and you are sorry for what you did.

Cheating is lying! Why wouldn’t a liar lie? Cheaters and liars do not accept responsibility, so they don’t want any accountability.

I agree. Men who cheat are liars. They have to be to keep up both relationships. Why wouldn’t they lie. They will say ‘she means nothing to me’ or ‘she’s lying to me‘, all the while telling the other woman that they love her and want to be with her, sometimes not even letting on that they are in another relationship to begin with. So I agree with the above poster, a liar is…well, a liar.

Men lie about affairs because they don’t want to face the consequences of their actions if the truth is discovered. These are the reasons I’ve heard from male friends in this situation:

1. Don’t want to get divorced, lose their kids, lose their home and money, lose reputation, lose position in community, lose respect of family or friends, lose respect at work, etc. Most of the time he is not emotionally involved enough with the other woman to lose these aspects of his life over her. Those who are Chronic cheaters usually have brief flings or one night stands and the other women mean nothing to them at all ….. that is, after he has found a new sexier lass to spill his lies hehehehe.
2. He believes he really loves his wife and wants to stay married to her. He thinks he will eventually grow out of the cheating or that the marriage will get better. This is the kind of man who justifies his actions by saying that his wife never wants to have sex anymore, she’s gained weight, she doesn’t take care of herself, etc. He will blame the wife for making him cheat, thereby giving himself an excuse to lie about it.
3. He honestly regrets the cheating and would never do it again, so he doesn’t see any need to confess since he has already “solved” the problem. Sometimes they really have learned their lesson, but most of the time it happens again eventually and he tells himself the same thing the next time… and the next, and the next, and so forth ….

Unless it really is a one time thing, cheating men and women will almost always get caught eventually and have to face the consequences. But as long as they are getting away with lying, most people will continue to lie. If you suspect you are being cheated on and being lied to about it, trust your instincts and go the extra mile to prove yourself right or wrong. Or, get out of the relationship and move on to someone who you can trust …… I trust my instincts more than I trust them hehehehe!

Men usually lie because they dont want to hurt you but what they dont realise is that the hurt is even more damaging than it already is, and upsettingly, they wont want to be responsible  for what they did ….. wallahualam.

Micheal Jackson Dies in LA Hospital

Dear Diary …..

My emotional strength is returning and even the most challenging obstacle in my path won’t likely slow me down very much today. Naturally, I think I will have to concentrate and prioritise my efforts on any serious issue that arises, but I’ll probably do so with a positive attitude. Luckily, this isn’t about being a Pollyanna; in fact, it’s my unwavering critical thinking that enables me to see through the camouflage and effectively cut to the chase …. insha’allah.  Come what may …… whatever wil be, will be ….. pain doesnt hurt anymore coz it’s all I’ve ever felt ………

Salute to All Mothers

Dear Diary …….

EXPLORE ….. my definition …

Mossavi Model think too much …….. oh boy, I cant help it but there’s just too many voices within me telling me stuff …. good stuff, bad stuff, stuff that benefits me, stuff that dont, stuff that matters, stuff that dont …. bla bla bla bla …..

However, I kinda enjoyed a conversation I had with mr P Ramlee Elvis and I challenged him to define the difference between “I tak nak buat jahat” and “but I like to explore” in a manner only he understand most ……(I guess so hehehe).

Well Mr Elvis, here are my thoughts ………

In matters of faith, Allah does not separate women from men.  A sign of the essential equality of men and women is that Allah created Adam and then from Adam Allah created a woman to be his mate.  We all–male and female–believe in Allah, worship and praise Allah, and prostrate before Allah in adoration.  Every Muslim willfully submits to Allah.  Every Muslim believes that Muhammad was Allah’s final messenger.  We all believe in Allah’s angels, His revelations, and the prophets that preceded Muhammad.  We all anticipate our meeting with Allah on the Day of Judgment and spend our lives preparing for that meeting.  We all seek forgiveness of our sins through prayer, fasting, good deeds, and charities.  We all trust in Allah and in the Holy Qur’an, Allah’s final revelation.

In matters of family, Allah has ordained different roles for men and women, with different rights and different responsibilities.  In everything that Allah has created, He has established order and proportion and the family is certainly no exception.  Allah has ordained marriage for men and women in order to make it easier for us to keep His commandments, in order to purge our souls of evil inclinations, and so that we might be a comfort to and a cover for each other during our spiritual journey in this world.  In so creating man and woman as mates, Allah has put love and mercy between their hearts.  No one–male or female–should use what Allah has ordained as an excuse to harm another person in any small way.

Allah has given men more strength than He has given women and so men are more bountiful.  For this reason Allah has ordained that men should be the maintainers and protectors of their wives.  In marriage the husband makes a most solemn pledge that he will act according to what Allah has allowed.  He gives to his wife a gift according to his means.  He inclines toward her with his desire, as Allah allows, and treats her always with love and tenderness.

Because, as Allah has ordained, men provide for their wives from what belongs to them, righteous women are devoutly obedient to their husbands.  In her husband’s absence, she protects what belongs to him.  While her husband establishes the direction the family will take, the wife helps to implement the strategies that will enable the family to achieve their goals and fulfill their dreams.  She manages the household so that the family benefits most from her husband’s bounties.

The mother is the first teacher for the children.  During the earliest years of their lives, she lays the foundation for future educational experiences; later she helps with school lessons.  She teaches them right from wrong and prepares them for understanding the importance of law and order.  She begins to prepare them to have their own families and to be members of the community.  She encourages them to grow and to explore the world around them.  She shapes the way the children will view the world–possible forever.

Allah did not create the heavens and the earth for His amusement.  All that Allah has created has meaning and purpose.  During our sojourn here, Allah has given us the opportunity to purify our souls so that we might dwell in paradise everlasting.  In this life we are each given a burden to bear and no one–neither our mates nor our parents or our children–can bear our burden for us.  It is through life’s burdens that we are each tested for the steadfastness of our faith.  The earth is our proving ground.  We are all encouraged to explore what Allah has created, all the while observing what Allah has enjoined and forbidden.  Were it not so, Allah will have created this great earth for naught.

Every person–male or female–has a right and a need to explore Allah’s creation and to create a relationship with Allah without the intercession of any other person.  Education gives us the tools we need to explore Allah’s creation, to experience the order and proportion Allah established in what He created, and to glorify Allah’s name.  Women have the same need and right to be educated as do men.

A husband should not fear an educated wife because she is his soul mate, confidant, and advisor.  Her education gives her the tools to make her role as mother, wife and homemaker more rewarding for her and more beneficial for her family.  An educated woman is more confident and more at peace; she imparts her peace and contentment to her family.  She is a better companion because she understands the world her husband negotiates.  She creates a home environment where her family will flourish mentally and spiritually.

And Allah is indeed aware of all that any of us does…………. and does not. AMIN!!

Dib Mossavi

Dear Diary …..

My Diary – today

UNEMPLOYED? Connect, and reflect.

Although we may not notice it, we often identify who we are by what we do for a living. A nurse may have a lifestyle and world view that is quite different than that of a stockbroker.
A young employee working in a resort hotel may experience life differently than an inner city social worker. Of course, we are much more than the sum of our job descriptions. But, it is quite true that our work greatly influences both how we perceive ourselves and the world.

This can become painfully clear if you suddenly become unemployed or own a business that has suddenly been hit hard by the recession. You might discover yourself suddenly wondering “Who am I?” and “Where do I fit into this world?” These thoughts might never have occurred to you if it weren’t for this economic crisis.

If you recently received a pink slip or are experiencing a work-related setback, I would like to ask you to consider these questions:
Do you honestly believe that God defines you by your job or profession?
Is it possible that God’s view of you is far greater and more expansive than anything you could possible hold for yourself?

We are all, by and large, creatures of comfort and security. We want our dinners on the table, our mortgages paid on time, and our lives to be generally predictable. The only problem with this is that our spiritual needs may clash with some of these routine comforts. Allah may in fact want and need us to question ourselves, our lives, and our actions from time to time. While we might be perfectly content to draw a paycheck every month and simply pay our dues until retirement, this may not be what Allah has in mind for us.

If you are presently unemployed or underemployed, perhaps this is a great time to rethink your options and discover what Allah might be creating room for you to become. This a great time to step off the merry-go-round and explore what’s inside of you that Allah needs you to express. Begin to see yourself as more than just a producer of goods and services for consumption. You are a human being, full of wonder and hope, fears and ambition, sorrows and joys, with an inner worth that none of us could possibly know. Take this time to reconnect with the mystery of your own life and path in this world. Take a moment, right now, to reflect not on the past and what you’ve been or done, but on how Allah sees you, knows your true worth and the limitless potential that lies before you.

Ya Allah,
Please help us understand
That we did not come to this world to be a mere machine of production
With no greater purpose or meaning
Than to make a living but never fully live.

Help us know there is more to us and more for us.
Help us tap into our greater truth and potential,
Help us find a way to give our gifts, to be of service
in a world full of needs.

Help us understand that we are living miracles
Beyond our own comprehensions
Our own expressions of something magnificent
Disguised in a torn sweatshirt and old blue jeans

………. Amin ………

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