What is a DILEMMA?
A dilemma is a problem offering two possibilities, neither of which may seem practically acceptable. The dilemma is sometimes used as a rhetorical device – “I must accept eithre A or B”; where A and B would be prepositions each leading to some further conclusion.
We realize our dilemma goes deeper than shortage of time; it is basically a problem of priorities. We confessed. But we have undone those things that ought to have done. And did not do the things which should have been done …
Our dilemma is that we hate change, or worse, having to make unfavourable choices. I guess what we really want is for things to remain the same or get better … so we can move on with life.
The essence of humanity’s spiritual dilemma is that we evolved to accept one truth and discover another. Is there a way to erase the dilemma? To resolve the contradictions? Sometimes I have real dilemmas in trying to understand what I really think and how to express life. All I know is that there is no escaping from our own selves.
A cruel dilemma turns upside down our senses of rights and wrongs.
SOLUTION TO A DILEMMA
A dilemma can be resolved through reasonable discussions to clarify issues. Constant communication, honesty, sincerity and respect are the fundamentals that can ease the pain when faced with a dilemma. Hanya jiwa yang tenang serta keyakinan yang tinggi bahawa Allah memberkati all good intentions will allow us to make a decision for the best interest of all concerned.
Wallahualam bissawab …
** As of today, I have started fasting to seek solace from Allah agar segala urusan dipermudahkan dengan izin NYA, and will continue fasting sehingga terlerai segala kekusutan …..